{"id":11965,"date":"2025-07-01T17:59:25","date_gmt":"2025-07-01T17:59:25","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/kohajone.press\/?p=11965"},"modified":"2025-07-01T17:59:25","modified_gmt":"2025-07-01T17:59:25","slug":"i-didnt-plan-to-be-a-dad-that-day-but-she-chose-me","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/kohajone.press\/?p=11965","title":{"rendered":"I DIDN\u2019T PLAN TO BE A DAD THAT DAY\u2014BUT SHE CHOSE ME"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>While patrolling a park in Modesto, I found a young woman, Kiara, curled on a bench, cradling her newborn, Nia. She had aged out of foster care and was homeless. I got them to a shelter and thought that was the end of it. But I kept visiting. Kiara began asking me parenting questions. One day, she said, \u201cI\u2019m not ready to be a mom. But you\u2026 you care.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I didn\u2019t say yes immediately. Adoption was complicated\u2014CPS got involved, and I was kept from seeing Nia for two months. Meanwhile, Kiara tried hard to turn things around but eventually called in tears: \u201cYou already are what she needs.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Once she signed over her rights, I was cleared. My fellow officers helped with baby supplies, and I dove into fatherhood\u2014nervous, tired, but completely committed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The judge finalized the adoption, and I named her Nia Grace Duvall. Kiara still visits on birthdays, and Nia, now four, is full of laughter and love.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I never planned to be a dad, but choosing to step in changed my life\u2014and hers\u2014forever.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Sometimes love finds you in the most unexpected places.<\/strong><\/p>\n<div class=\"684f6003e199ca137b09540a661b4c2d\" data-index=\"2\" style=\"float: none; margin:0px 0 0px 0; text-align:center;\">\n<!-- Composite Start -->\r\n<div id=\"M940464ScriptRootC1583286\">\r\n<\/div>\r\n<script src=\"https:\/\/jsc.adskeeper.com\/k\/o\/kohajone.press.1583286.js\" async>\r\n<\/script>\r\n<!-- Composite End -->\r\n\n<\/div>\n\n<div style=\"font-size: 0px; height: 0px; line-height: 0px; margin: 0; padding: 0; clear: both;\"><\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>While patrolling a park in Modesto, I found a young woman, Kiara, curled on a bench, cradling her newborn, Nia. She had aged out of foster care&#8230; <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":11966,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-11965","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/kohajone.press\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11965","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/kohajone.press\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/kohajone.press\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kohajone.press\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kohajone.press\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=11965"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/kohajone.press\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11965\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":11967,"href":"https:\/\/kohajone.press\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11965\/revisions\/11967"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kohajone.press\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/11966"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/kohajone.press\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=11965"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kohajone.press\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=11965"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kohajone.press\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=11965"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}