Mjekja e njohur pediatre ka postuar ne profilin e saj ne rrjetet sociale nje keshille per vjerrat apo gjyshet se si duhet te sillen me nipat dhe mbesat e tyre si dhe me nuset e tyre. Cili eshte roli dhe detyra e gjyshes sipas saj<\/p>\n
Nga Lira Gjika\/ Cili \u00ebsht\u00eb roli i gjyshes? T\u00eb rris\u00eb nipat dhe mbesat? Jo, ata duhet t\u2019i rrisin prind\u00ebrit e tyre. Gjyshja duhet t\u00eb ndihmoj\u00eb t\u00eb rinjt\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebrballojn\u00eb dhe t\u00eb nd\u00ebrtojn\u00eb rutin\u00ebn e re t\u00eb t\u00eb jetuarit.<\/p>\n
Gjyshja e mir\u00eb vazhdon t\u00eb jet\u00eb n\u00ebn\u00eb, p\u00ebr vajz\u00ebn, apo nusen, q\u00eb sapo \u00ebsht\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb n\u00ebn\u00eb. E inkurajon n\u00ebn\u00ebn e re, q\u00eb \u00e7do gj\u00eb mund dhe duhet t\u2019ia b\u00ebj\u00eb vet\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebs. Ajo e nxit dhe e siguron, se \u00ebsht\u00eb n\u00eb rrug\u00eb t\u00eb mbar\u00eb, sepse k\u00ebshtu i ka ndodhur edhe asaj.<\/p>\n
Gjyshja e mir\u00eb nuk i thot\u00eb n\u00ebn\u00ebs s\u00eb re, \u201cti s\u2019di\u201d dhe mund ta d\u00ebmtosh f\u00ebmij\u00ebn, meqen\u00ebse nuk di, k\u00ebshtu, do p\u00ebrkujdesem un. Kjo m\u00ebnyr\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb vet\u00ebm e d\u00eb.msh.me, si p\u00ebr f\u00ebmij\u00ebn ashtu edhe p\u00ebr n\u00ebn\u00ebn e re.<\/p>\n
F\u00ebmija do t\u00eb rritet nga n\u00ebna e tij, sepse vet\u00ebm me at\u00eb, n\u00ebn\u00ebn, mund t\u00eb nd\u00ebrtoj\u00eb at\u00eb lloj sigurie dhe be.simi p\u00ebr jet\u00ebn, q\u00eb b\u00ebn t\u00eb mundur, nj\u00eb jet\u00eb sa m\u00eb pak prob.le.ma.tike n\u00eb t\u00eb ardhmen.<\/p>\n
N\u00ebna e re do t\u00eb humbas\u00eb koh\u00ebn e \u00e7muar, pasi f\u00ebmija nuk ka koh\u00eb t\u00eb humb\u00eb kur vjen n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb jet\u00eb. Duhet t\u00eb nd\u00ebrtoj\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnien me n\u00ebn\u00ebn, p\u00ebr t\u00eb nd\u00ebrtuar sigurin\u00eb e besimin, por n\u00ebna e re nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb gati, sepse \u00ebsht\u00eb e tre.m.bur.<\/p>\n
K\u00ebtu duhet ndihma e gjyshes, t\u00eb mos e ler\u00eb vet\u00ebm n\u00ebn\u00ebn e re dhe ta inkurajoj\u00eb. T\u00eb nxit\u00eb baban\u00eb t\u00eb jet\u00eb pjes\u00eb e rritjes s\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebs s\u00eb tij s\u00eb bashku me gruan e tij, n\u00ebn\u00ebn e re. Kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb detyra e gjyshes, dhe jo t\u00eb pretendoj\u00eb rritjen e f\u00ebmij\u00ebs.<\/p>\n