One of those small but surprisingly confusing questions about being a houseguest is what to do with the bed before you leave. Should you strip the sheets or make the bed? There is no universal rule because every household has different preferences, so the best approach is to pay attention to your host’s instructions.

If your host has provided a hamper or specifically asked you to remove the bedding, follow those directions. This usually means taking off the sheets and pillowcases, but you generally don’t need to remove mattress protectors, duvet inserts, or decorative bedding unless you were asked to do so.

When there are no instructions, making the bed neatly is often a thoughtful choice. Straighten the sheets, arrange the pillows, and leave the room looking tidy. It gives your host one less thing to deal with after you leave and avoids creating extra laundry work unnecessarily.

The same courtesy applies to towels. If there is a laundry basket or designated place for used towels, use it. Avoid leaving damp towels on the floor, furniture, or bed. There is also no need to start a load of laundry unless your host specifically asks you to.

Ultimately, good houseguest etiquette is about making things easier for your host rather than following a strict rule. Before leaving, collect your belongings, remove your trash, tidy up obvious messes, and check for any instructions. If you’re still unsure, simply ask, “Would you like me to strip the bed or leave it made?” A quick question can save everyone unnecessary work.